As we bid the unforgettable 2020 goodbye and welcome a hopeful 2021, we are immensely thankful for your benevolence. It was 28 years of love and trust from people like you that have shaped OCEF today. May your love and kindness to others bring you and your family good fortune and happiness in the new year!
We would like to express our deepest gratitude to all of you who stood by us to support our cause. The GlobalGiving #GivingTuesday event has closed with $42,370 donated to OCEF from 180 generous donors, which brought in a matching fund of $13,763 for a total of $56,134. With this, OCEF has raised more than $500,000 through the GlobalGiving event over the past eight years, a new milestone. Thanks to the overwhelming love from the community, OCEF is ending 2020 on a high note and greeting a whole new 2021 with confidence.
By now, all 270 elementary school students in the 1-on-1 aid program have been matched with respective donors, and 373 junior high students and 890 high school students as well. If you wish to be part of this program, there are still 410 junior high students and 87 high school students available for matching. The 1-to-1 aid program can be accessed through our webpage. Once you have made your donation, feel free to log into the system to choose specific students to sponsor. You will also be able to check on your sponsored student’s basic information, photographs, transcripts, correspondence and so on.
在英语课堂上,Miss杨为我们评讲英语练习册,“That is the only way that we can imagine ___ the overuse of water in students’ bathrooms”,横线上应该填的是to reduce,而我却记得imagine后面应该接动名词做宾语,所以我填的是reducing。Miss杨把这道题讲了一遍后再问我该填什么,我说reducing,她再问我该填什么,我还是说reducing。Miss杨提高了声音再问我,我也很大声地吼出reducing……从那以后,同学们都说我被reducing给洗脑了。现在想想,自己真地很搞笑,也终于把它记住了。
Every spring and fall, hundreds of letters fly into the OCEF office, letters that are filled with the joys and torments at school, the happiness and frustrations of everyday life, the bitter and sweet of young relationships, and the idyll and anguish of rural life. We are privileged to watch the tears and laughter of these young people unfold before us. We are rewarded so much more for every penny of donation by receiving this genuine outflow of emotions. And we know that this positivity is budding in their heart, waiting for its time to bloom.
Song, Chayouqianqi, Inner Mongolia:
I love reading. Once, I was so engrossed by a book that I forgot to cook lunch until my dad came home at 2 p.m. He was so angry with me and my books, but I would never give up reading. Of course, I no longer forget to cook lunch either.
Aloo, Leshan, Sichuan:
I’m in high school now. It’s so different from junior high. I’m so lost. At first it was like riding an airplane for the first time, and I had no idea what the teacher was saying, especially in the English class. It’s a bit less confusing now, though I’m still struggling. Hope it’ll get better. And I wish my parents could get along better. (Editor’s note: Her parents are not in a good relationship, which makes her more upset than happy when she gets to go home.) High school life is just tough. Sleep is never enough. We’re like endangered animals with all the attention in the world. I hope through my hard work I’d be able to create a brighter future for myself.
Chen, Jining, Inner Mongolia:
One day at lunch time, my dormmate told us that she didn’t feel like eating. Later we learnt from her deskmate that she forgot her meal card. We felt sorry so we bought a pancake for her. She was exhilarated when she saw the pancake: “You really didn’t have to do this. Thank you so much! It’s so nice knowing you girls!” I just responded with a smile.
Zhang, Chayouhouqi, Inner Mongolia:
My brother quit school last week. I’m like the only hope in the family now, so I’ve got to live up to their expectation. I have no time to relax at all, but who am I to complain? My parents work so hard with no complaint. Come on! I can do it.
Awoo, Leshan, Sichuan:
I was never the active type and I consider myself physically weak. So when we were to have a 800-meter test for the girls, I thought I was doomed. My teacher was so kind to encourage me just to finish the run. To my own surprise, I outran all my classmates! Maybe it’s just luck, maybe it’s my focus, or maybe it’s a moment of releasing all my pressure from academic work, but I landed the first place with a record of 3’30” before I realized it. It was a dawning moment to myself that I did it through my perseverance. I’m hoping for the same miracle during my college entrance exam.
Li, Chayouqianqi, Inner Mongolia:
I love basketball. When I learnt that the school has a basketball team, I was beyond excited. I joined the team. It gave me a platform of self-liberation and self-expression. Training was tough but I enjoyed every moment. However, it did cost me two hours of school sessions a day. Entering the last years of high school, the college entrance exam is not to be taken lightly. My teacher talked to me a few times. I gave it a long thought and decided to give up basketball for my academic future.
Zhang, Chayouhouqi, Inner Mongolia:
I was quite unfortunate to have contracted flu and tonsillitis during our last annual school games event. My dormmates were so lovely to record the games for me, help me get water and food, and even tuck me in in the middle of the night. I feel so lucky to have met them. My life is beautiful because of them.
Jike, Leshan, Sichuan:
At an English class, Miss Yang was going over this fill-in-the-blank question with us: That is the only way that we can imagine ___ the overuse of water in students’ bathrooms. The correct answer is “to reduce.” But I clearly remembered that the verb “imagine” should be followed by a gerund, so I answered: “reducing.” Miss Yang explained to us why it should be “to reduce” before she asked me again. I said, “reducing.” She asked me to try again, and once again I said “reducing.” She then raised her voice to ask me to give it another thought, and I reciprocated by raising my voice with a roaring “reducing.” Since then, my classmates kept teasing me that I’d been possessed with “reducing.” And that is the story of how I managed to remember the correct answer to this question.
Yang, Chayouhouqi, Inner Mongolia:
Walking on my way to school on a cold winter day, snow pelting on my face, I saw a father and his daughter walking by. The father was carrying the daughter’s backpack and gave the only hat to the daughter. The pair trod on, smiling in the cold air. It reminded me of my own father.
Li, Chayouqianqi, Inner Mongolia:
My teacher is very nice and caring. Once I lost the money to pay for the whole week’s meals. When my teacher learnt about the incident, she handed me 50 yuan and said: “Just let me know if you need any help. I might not be able to help much, but I’ll do my best.” I was extremely touched. All I can do is to work harder to repay her kindness.
Luo, Leshan, Sichuan:
Scorching Sunday afternoon. Eyes heavy. Always wake up in class from the pinching pain in my hand, thanks to my buddies. Come on! Attention! Battle on.
Zhang, Chayouhouqi, Inner Mongolia:
Mom promised to buy me new clothes. I was so happy. We took a ride to town the next day and I was filled with excitement the whole way. We went straight to the department store. I saw a pair of shoes. But after learning the price, I hesitated. Even today, we still live in a rental unit. I said to my mom: “Let’s check out some other places.” It wasn’t hard to tell how much I wanted those shoes. Mom insisted on buying them. I still remember the price, 120 yuan. Mom also wanted to buy a jacket, but she gave up after asking the price. I asked her why, and she said: ‘You are going to school. You need to dress nicely. Mom and dad can wear anything.” I was brimming with tears. Ever since then, I have not asked for any new clothes.”
Cao, Leshan, Sichuan:
One day after school, my friend and I were on our way home. “Did you know,” he said suddenly, ‘that some of your classmates stayed behind after school to finish up their homework?” “Seriously? For real?” I was taken aback. “Yeah, so I heard from some of them. So, that’s what I’m gonna do tonight, stay back and finish my homework in school.” “What? But you live so far away! It’s gonna be so late when you get home!” I cried out, “I can’t let you do that alone. I’m gonna stay behind as well.”
Awoo, Leshan, Sichuan:
A very important friend of mine lied to me. I didn’t talk to him for a week. We were in a cold war until I decided to talk to him again and told him I forgave him. I guess lies are more or less a part of growing up; some are harmless white lies and some simply could not be helped. Sometimes we say things we don’t mean. When it happens, we take it as it is.”
Shi, Jining, Inner Mongolia:
My last month-end exam result was less than ideal. I felt really upset for some time and was bracing myself for the judging looks from others, until I overheard the comments when I walked out of the subsequent exam: ‘Look! Isn’t that Shi? She’s in this exam room?!’ (The exam rooms are arranged according to the results of the previous exam.) It hurts. I told myself later that I should not be influenced by how others see me but had to be strong and prove myself. And my efforts did pay off. I think I did well in today’s exam.
Chen, Leshan, Sichuan:
Half of my high school life has slipped away. It was dotted with unexpected moments. At times, I sulked over my friends for not caring about me enough. But I had forgotten that they had always been there for me whenever I needed help. Like the time when I was suddenly struck by a headache and was going to get some medicine from the clinic. It was during a PE class. I could have gone by myself, but my friends were so worried for me that they took charge and rushed around as if they had been the ones who were in dire need of doctors. I was so touched!
Jin, Chayouqianqi, Inner Mongolia:
It was 6:30 a.m. on Monday, Jan 17. I had a fight with my grandma. I woke up at 6 to practice English, and by 6:25 I was getting ready to go to school. Grandma said to me: “Quit pretending to study hard.” I was so offended and argued with her. On my way to school, I thought to myself angrily: “Should have gone to school to do it.” When I returned home at noon, lunch was ready and grandma started talking to me like nothing happened. So we were good again.
Luo, Wuchuan, Guizhou:
My nickname in the dorm is “Turnip.” They all call me “Turnip,” and I call them “cabbage,” “rabbit,” and so on. We love each other. Being called by a nickname just makes me feel happy and loved.
Ayu, Leshan, Sichuan:
I, for the first time, was riding a horse. Pacing with my uncle, the horse’s lead rope in his hand, I requested: “How about I try it?” Uncle chuckled, handing me the rein. Trying to copy what I saw, I squeezed my legs with a loud “Ya!” And holy smoke—the horse was galloping! In a panic, I scrambled to pull the rein and desperately held onto the stirrups with all the “Yu” (the equivalent of “Whoa”) I could yell, to no avail. The horse galloped on with an occasional taunting neigh.
Archa, Leshan, Sichuan:
At the beginning of the 11th grade, I had a crush on a guy. After a long struggle, I finally let it go. We are kind of good friends now. I know what I need to stay focused on right now. It’s a good thing that we’re on “friendly” terms now.
The 11th grade is a turning point, though life goes on as usual, busy but fulfilling. Ever since I moved to the back row in the 2nd semester, I started feeling less motivated and became disengaged. Sometimes I felt lost. The last high school year is around the corner and I’m still not decided on which university to choose… I’ve got to brace myself up and work hard for a good university!!
Sharma, Leshan, Sichuan:
I’ve received the donated book, The Jade King: History of a Chinese Muslim. It made me realize that you’ll have to face life, whether it is beautiful or cruel. When you are ready to let go, a new hope will arrive. Next semester I wish to receive similar books or philosophy books.
During an IT class, the teacher showed us how to use Baidu. I stumbled upon a real funny clip there and couldn’t help but burst into laughter. The whole class was watching me. I just felt that the science and technology is so advanced nowadays that we can literally find anything online. It opens a window to the outside world for us.
I’m not the best student but I’ll work hard and stay positive. I might not be as good as others, but I can be happy and positive.
Laha, Leshan, Sichuan:
I received the book, Happiness Just Right, from which I saw a new kind of life attitude, a kind that is calm and positive. Living with purpose will fill your life with happiness, not too much, not too little. Life is a long road, just take one step at a time.
Last Labor Day, I travelled back home. My parents were so delighted to see me. First thing they asked was: “Are you hungry? What do you want to have?” Their love was overflowing from their words. I had a different idea. It’s time I did something for them. So I made some simple home dishes. They told me they loved it. Well, I knew I was a terrible cook. Even I myself found it hard to swallow. But my love made the dishes taste so nice to them. They have had a rough life and worked so hard for the family. I would do anything to put a smile on their faces.
School work isn’t going as well as I wished, but I’m not giving up. I believe in effort and grit. I can fly higher with the right attitude and perseverance. There is no “best,” only “better”!
Yang, Chayouhouqi, Inner Mongolia:
I miss my mom. I haven’t seen her for so long. I would call her every day. The other day we were talking about WeChat Store and she taught me how to set one up. I am running a WeChat store now and I will use what I earn to buy my mom a pretty skirt.
Zhao, Chayouqianqi, Inner Mongolia:
The other day, when I returned from school, my dog immediately ran to me, happily wagging her tail. I was very happy to see her but I was a bit late, so I just rushed for dinner and went to bed without playing with her. When I left home for school on Monday, she was sad to see me leave again.
Editors: MA Nan, FANG Mingfeng, FENG Min, DING Shuangying, et. al. Amanuensis: MA Nan Translation: HONG Yiying